The 3 Important Rules of Communication

The 3 Important Rules of Communication

In any language, there are three extremely important points to remember when you’re communicating with someone.

1. Say what you mean. It can be difficult to express (say) some ideas clearly, but if you’re trying to prevent miscommunication, it’s important to say exactly what you mean. Be clear and to the point.

2. Ask questions. Communication is two-way, which means you can’t be the one doing all the talking. To make sure your listener is engaged (interested in what you have to say) and understanding you, ask questions. See #5 below for good types of questions to ask.

3. Listen. We mean really listen. Hear what your speaking partner has to say, and try to understand what they mean.

Following all three of these rules will make you excellent at communicating in English (and probably in your native language as well).

Of course, as an English learner you might have a hard time communicating in English because of the language barrier. Don’t worry—here are are some tips you can use if you want to understand (and be understood) better.